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♥ Wednesday, November 07, 2007

yeah! todae i saw FELICIA CHIN AND DASMOND KOH!
WOOOHOOO~
FELICIA CHIN DAMN CHIO AND FRIENDLY CAN!
hahaha.
of cos~
i will nv forget to take photo wif them.
hehehe~



after we started the ball rolling~~~~p








hmmm. todae was damn tired man.
fell aslp during biostats until i NEARLY fell off the chair sia.
and the cher was goin quite fast todae.
so u will constantly hear "huh", "why" here and there. lols.
with a mixture of "cb" and "fk" by guoming.
hahaha.

oh yeah. i wanted to go donate blood todae wif geok, ain, chris, justin and guojie.
end up onli left ain and geok applicable fer taking. lols.
chris = underweight
me = got chicken pox in last 1 yr. HOW SADED! STUPID CHICKEN POOX!
guojie = flu
justin = UNDERAGE! hahaha. WOOPS~ cos he haven had his 18th birthdae yet. DUN LUFF AT HIM LA~




so many ppl actuali went to apply fer overseas ITP sia.
i oso wanna go overseas leh...
but no $$$$!
WHERE TO GET $$$$!
I NEED $$$$$!

i shall tok abt the bk, MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS
[specially for someone~]

In chapter 6,
it talks abt men behaving like a RUBBER BAND.
When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.
When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back.
However, this does not mean that the man doesnt love the woman anymore.
A man pulls away to fulfill his nees for independence or autonomy.
When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love and intimacy again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs.

It puts too much pressure on a man to make him the only source of love and support.

Therefore, it is essential for women to understand that if they insist on continuous intimacy or "run after" their intimate male partner when he pulls away, then he will almost alwasys trying to escape and distance himself; he will never get a chance to feel his own passionate longing for love.

The man grows to understand his own cycles and reassures her when he pulls away that he will be back!

In chapter 7,
it talks about women behaving like a WAVE.
A woman's self-esteem rises and falls like a wave.
When she hits bottom, it is time for emotional housecleaning.
A woman's ability to give and receive love in her relationship is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself.
When she is not feeling as good about herself, she is unable to be as accepting and appreciative of her partner. At her down times, she tends to be overwhelmed or more emotionally reactive. When her wave hits bottom, she is more vulnerable and needs more love.
It is crucial that the partner understand what she needs at times, otherwise he may make unreasonable demands.

In relationships, men pull back and then get close, while women rise and fall in their ability to love themselves and others.

JIAYOU~ TO PPL IN LOVE~

RANDOM~






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